MATT TARDO wrote:
And one of my points was that most people cannot get over themselves to realize that other people have something to offer them. You don't perceive he is any wiser than yourself, so you will always refuse any advice from him or others like him.
Would you refuse knowledge from someone who is stupid even if you lack that knowledge? It reminds me of the Chinese Story called The Bookworm in which a man spends his whole life in books with no knowledge of common sense. When his wife finally proposes to teach him how to make babies (his funny reply was "I just don't understand how we have been sleeping next to each other in bed and have made no babies"), the only way she can convince him to learn is to basically call him stupid in the matter. So to avoid being called stupid, he learns.
It's more a matter of being ignorant in that story but it shows that we can learn from all kinds of people - not just people that our own possibly misguided perceptions show to be wiser than ourselves.
Let me reply to you with a famous quote by Galileo:
I never met a man so stupid I could not learn something from him.I am not saying I cannot learn anything from him, like I said before, I'm sure that is the case, I am sure he is very knowledgable in the subject matter. I am just
choosing not to, as I don't see him as a fit advisor. There's a difference there. And to make things clear (since I don't like people putting words in my mouth) I never called him stupid. I don't think he's stupid, all the contrary, he's probably too smart for his own sake, and that is what blinds him and robs him of much needed humility.
Of course if I thought he was the only source for knowledge I needed, I'd be stupid not to listen to him. But that is not the case here :-)
I am sorry if you feel alluded in some way, or maybe he's your friend and feel like stepping up for him. I am not coming here to insult him (as you so quickly came up and try to do to me) or offend him in any way. I am just trying to point out that sometimes a certain level of civility is preferred in most types of interactions.
Since I don't want to fall into any type of odd exchange with anyone, I will make this my last post on the matter as I think I have clearly stated my point. I just wanted to clarify what was exactly what I said. I haven't called anyone here stupid. All I said was I didn't think he as wise as I :-)
To MATT, take what you must and just leave the rest.
-- AI