my lvl 55 character will not load please help i do not want to start again
load a past save, if you didn't save under a new file every hour or so shame on you.
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Check the game files under System Settings --> Storage --> All Devices --> Games -->Skyrim. If the saves are corrupted, you'll have to start over. First, try what US Revenge suggested though. Since you can have multiple saves, you'll likely be able to go back to a recent save point.