Hi Hatchjunior! As Smwutches has noted, it can take up to 45 days to both see your Refer a Friend Points to show up under Pending, if you both qualified for them. Here's why the wait is essential: The referred friend must purchase the Xbox LIVE Gold membership online within fourteen days of receiving the Refer a Friend email sent to them when you initiated when you visited rewards.xbox.com/refer-a-friend to refer them (Xbox LIVE Gold retail code redemptions and promotional memberships do not qualify). Additionally, the friend must keep the Xbox LIVE Gold membership for at least thirty days. Keep in mind that your friend must also be an active Xbox LIVE Rewards member when they took these actions. That said, it can take some time to meet all of those requirements to earn Points for Refer a Friend. To learn more about the Terms here, please visit rewards.xbox.com/.../terms-and-conditions. If you and your friend has met all of those requirements listed, then rest assure that you will see those Rewards Points in due time.