Ok.I was waiting for a few matches to see if the problem would return and I'm happy to report that we have a fix!!! I was so frustrated I brought it a Network Manager to check everything out and AGAIN THE PROBLEM IS NOT ON YOUR END OR MICROSOFTS!
Of course to be safe, (as the pro instructed me to say), make sure to double check your port forwarding and UPnP settings on your router. You can do this by simply typing your routers IP address in your browser bar and going through the menu settings.
Once you have verified that it is not your connection (if you dont have problems in any other game including no lag and no trouble signing into xbox live), now you can fix the real problem (EA's patches not matching the data on your console and them removing you from games because their computers believe youre doing something illegal....its kinda like when you sratch your disc and the game freezes at the same point everytime. Whats happening on the screen isn't matching the data the xbox is reading. In this case, the online monitors are removing you out because a file isn't being read properly)
So to correct this...Delete all material on your xbox concerning Madden 13 (Including the game, demos, EA sports early release, etc...)
1. To do this....XBOX Circle > Settings > System Settings > Storage > Harddrive or Flash Memory > (Games & Apps / Demos)
Once these are deleted, restart your xbox and pop in Madden 13 (you'll have to redownload your updates and your online pass [you don't have to pay again] and you should see immediate improvement. Also if you have the space, I recommend installing the game to your harddrive, it makes for slightly faster load times.
CAUTION! CAUTION! CAUTION! Your game should run just fine after this. Don't forget that you will lose any offline careers and created players by taking these steps.
I hope this helps. Thank you to all the Microsoft reps that assisted me and be sure if youre having this issue to check your internet connection using the steps above (it might be exhausting but its worth it to ensure that you aren't creating the problem because of your connection.) EA owes me big time for this one!
Happy Gaming Everyone.